I am sure I am not alone here, when I say I have answered this question many times over the 17 or so years I have been polyamorous: “Don’t you or your partners get jealous?” The answer is yes and no. Some polyamorous people feel jealousy very rarely or never and this is natural for […]
You can love a lot of people – each relationship is unique Relationship Anarchy (RA) questions the idea that love is a special, limited feeling which is real only when kept between two people at any given moment. It is possible to love more than one person – your relationship to one doesn’t diminish your […]
This interview was conducted before Deborah’s tragic death in 2015. In the short time I was blessed to know Deborah she was truly a light and an inspiration to me. I hope her words below will act as inspiration to future generations exploring polyamory, spirituality, and living with authenticity. When did you first identify as […]
For the second interview in the series we are talking to Dossie Easton, the author of The Ethical Slut. You obviously have a very long association with polyamory, sex education and the BDSM scene, could you tell us a bit about how these areas first became a focus for you? I have been a slut […]
Marina Cantacuzino the founder of the Forgiveness Project explores learning to forgive when relationships expand or end. Beth had been happily married for 13 years when she met, David, a divorced father of two who she fell in love with. All of this was known to Beth’s husband, who she continued to love. For a […]
When people who have previously been single or in a monogamous relationship become poly they often find that most of their time and energy is taken up by their relationships, which can leave them very little for themselves. For example, one newly poly person can’t remember the last night he spent at his own house, […]
For the first interview in our author series we are talking to Pete Benson, the author of The Polyamory Handbook. Can I start by saying thank-you for agreeing to do this interview. My pleasure! Thanks for asking! Can you tell us what initially drew you to polyamory? I don’t think anything “drew” me to polyamory. […]